Delivery


This newsletter has been going out to you five times each year. It has a number of purposes: We want to tell you what we are doing and why it is so important that we do it; We want to ask you to continue to support this work. Almost every small charitable organization sends out newsletters for these purposes.


Beyond those purposes I wanted to send to you something that was worth the time you take to read it, I wanted it to be a little gift from all the people that you have cared for that you don't even know. There is sadness in the lives of the people we want to be for - so in this newsletter that truth needed to be told. But there is much joy also, and you have to hear something of that in these pages. In the midst of difficult circumstances - even misery - beauty breaks in; so in these pages, a drawing, a poem, some reminder that we are beauty blessed every day.


Last week there was a new pull-out sofa bed delivered to Domenic House: beige plaid with greens and blues in it, herculon fabric, scotchguarded, set down in the sitting room of the studio apartment there. Sometimes the road is so long and winding, we forget the original promise or lose faith that we will ever be able keep it. Its more than fifteen years since a group of people from Paoli met a group of women from the streets of Philadelphia and the Bethesda 'project' began with no more promise than 'we act towards one another as if we belonged to one family.'


It project doesn't end with this sofa, but you must know that that hesitant promise comes to some fruition with the delivery of this new sofa bed. The sofa would go here, and the table there and the TV over here, she told me. And she told me that her six and seven year old grandkids would be able to stay over, on the pulled out sofa, and breakfast would be made and they would watch cartoons together some Saturday mornings. and I knew that its occupant would, for the very first time be able to have her six and seven year old grandchildren spend the night with her. Years of hospitalizations, slow return, medications and breakdowns, placements and waiting, worry and no place to live, work and the loss of work, more illness, and worry about a daughter growing up with one not there. Dreams so long in the waiting being carried into the apartment on the backs of the delivery men.


There have been times that I have been burning to write to you here, wanting whatever had touched me or been on my mind to be on yours. Pushing my upset at the conditions too many people must endure, demanding that you worry too. But today nothing more to say to you than this: Last week a new pull-out sofa was delivered to Domenic House. Thank You.

 

Joe Ferry, Bethesda

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